When experiencing the complex emotion of love for the first time – or even the tenth – women can find entering a relationship fairly anxiety provoking and stressful as well as experiencing the more positive and pleasant emotions too. Maybe things went wrong in your last relationship, and you’re worried about messing up again. This anxiety and apprehension can increase when they are uncertain of their partner’s level of interest in them or, indeed, whether he may have an ulterior motive for his relationship with you.
If you simply wish to calm your concerns and worries for a short while and just enjoy the attentions of your new partner, then here are some important facts and pieces of good advice that you may wish to adhere to and monitor within your new relationship, and which will very clearly indicate to you whether your partner really loves you as your relationship progresses and hopefully goes from strength to strength.
He calls you without giving any reason, just because he wants to.
If your partner calls you for no apparent reason this is a very good indicator that he is really interested in you. If a guy sees no reason to wait for a while in order to call you then this strongly suggests that he definitely wants to take your relationship seriously.
If you feel the same level of interest in him as he does in you, then it is wise and polite to return the favour and call him, but not too often; if you do this when he doesn’t expect it this will pleasantly surprise him and he will feel flattered that you are thinking of him also. This will give your relationship a truly positive beginning.
He can always find time for you.
No matter how busy his work or personal schedule he can always make some quality time to be with you and only you. If this is the case then you can be confident that he wishes to get to know much more about you. Ensure that you recognise his efforts by making quality time for him within your own busy work schedule; he will notice this and appreciate you all the more for it.
Of course, you’ll want to know he’s not cheating on you, so you can read the signs for that in our other article.
He talks positively to his friends about you.
A guy who really wants a good relationship with you nearly always cannot wait to tell his friends all about you, including details about your appearance, personality and those special important things about you that make him really interested in taking your relationship further. Hopefully, you will meet a sensitive and loving guy who will provide you with welcome attention often.
However, occasionally a guy may not tell his friends or close relatives about you. If you think he’s probably a more private person who would rather wait a while before disclosing his new relationship, there’s no need to be hurt or concerned about this; it does not necessarily indicate anything negative about you or about you both as a couple. Consider also, he may be worried that you might not like his friends or family.
If your partner does introduce you to his best friends then make an effort to get to know them as they are important to him; by introducing you to them he is showing them that you are now important to him also. This is actually a big step for him which he will not have done without some considered thought. Getting to know each others’ friends is part of the dating and relationships scene and it is important in helping to strengthen your own relationship and respect for each other.
Still not sure? Check out our next article on how to know if a guy is falling in love.